It’s tempting to think that the process of growth and transformation requires that we bring something “more than” what we already have, or are already doing. In a culture that’s continually telling us that what we have, and who we are, isn’t enough; That in order to succeed at what we want, we need “more” – more money, more things, a better job, a bigger car – it’s easy to see how we might feel compelled to approach our own growth and transformation in the same manner.
But what if I told you that the opposite was actually true?
That in order to fully access your own personal power – to live your life from a place of total strength and vitality – all you need is what you already have.
This is the truth.
The dictionary defines Vitality as, “The state of being strong or active; Exuberant physical strength or mental vigor; Vital force; The power to live or grow”.
The power to live or grow. THIS is your natural state.
The demands of our society and others around you may have convinced you otherwise; Made you think that you need to look outside of yourself to achieve what your heart truly desires. But the answer you’ve been seeking – the strength to accomplish your dreams – has been within you all along. It’s there right now. In this very moment.
The first step toward obtaining this power within is to bring awareness to it’s presence. Come into presence, and acknowledge your innate vitality that already exists.
The second step is more like a leap; A leap of faith that asks that you leave behind what you thought you knew – about yourself, about others, about what’s possible and not possible – and instead, leave the comfort and familiarity of the old ways, and step forward into a brand new way of being.
Just think about it… Was anything truly great ever achieved by resting on the couch? Likely not. In order to achieve greatness, we must leave our comfort zones.
And the only way out is through. Standing in the face of fear, you step forward anyway.
Neil Armstrong would have taken that “one small step” onto the moon. The Wright brothers would have never taken that first flight.
If you want something you’ve never had, you’ve got to do something you’ve never done. Everything you want – your heart’s deepest desires – exists on the other side of fear. And fear isn’t real; It’s the old stories – the old way – trying to keep you stuck in your comfort zone.
Break out. Break free.
Challenge what you “know” to be true. Especially any beliefs that confine and constrain you, and rob you of your innate power and vitality.
You don’t need to have the “how” figured out right now. You don’t need all of the answers.
As you keep stepping forward into your own growth and transformation, remember – it doesn’t all have to happen at once. The process of stepping outside of your comfort zone is a practice that often requires stepping out again, and again, and again… and again.
Celebrate the tiny victories; the brief moments of clarity and presence; the little breakthroughs and “a-ha!” moments you discover.
And when you (likely) slide back into your comfort zone again, bring awareness to those “tapes” and “stories” that play on repeat in your head. Do the words you speak to yourself keep you stuck in your comfort zone? What beliefs do you have about yourself that keep you from living into your fullest vitality and power?
Most of all, remember: Vitality is your natural state; It’s an energy and aliveness that you can access within yourself at any time. And it’s right there waiting for you… every time you re-commit to your own growth, drop the “stories” that weigh you down, and take that next, great big (no matter how small) step forward.